Hey, you look nice, and I don’t think you are boring at all. And what is 48? That’s not old, that’s young and kicking 🙂
And I think spirit, or character, is a big deal. I have met a woman in my choir who is in her 70’s, but she still has a certain girlish flair and style, which is quite attractive.
There is an Italian word I very much like, it is ‘Sprezzatura”, and means something along the lines of ‘grace without effort’, and that is something which greatly attracts me. I was a bit embarrassed to be attracted by my aunt, last time I saw her. 🙂
She is 50, but still very elegant.
Anyway, don’t mind me, it’s getting a bit late here in the Netherlands 🙂